Bright and Dark views of organised and self-control living
October 6, 2011 2 Comments
To achieve organized living is some sort of ability to force and then reinforce ourself to do something that we want to do at all cost, even if we don’t feel like it. In other words, we force our self-control mechanism to resist the temptation of attractions spread in our surroundings, thereby allowing ourselves to concentrate on some particular jobs and relationships. Practicing self-discipline may require lots of hard work and a strong will to master and practice our inner strength, eventually the more we discipline our self to resist succumbing to the temptations of life, the more self-discipline will strengthen.
To control one’s impulses, emotions, desires and behavior is not an easy job and a person need quite maturity ,guidance of elders and their practical demonstrations. It is being able to turn down short-lived immediate pleasure and instant gratification in view of gaining the long-term better results of successful life and fulfillment from achieving higher and more meaningful goals.
Self-control primarily begins with the managing wrong directional thoughts can come in mind from many sources like poor upbringing, bad company or might be inherent nature. Simply, self-control on fulfilling demands enables us to think first and act afterward after carefully considering its dark and bright sides.
It surely helps to build self-confidence on one’s decision-making ability
Make more organize life , more quantity and quality of work can yield in same time frame.
This would maintain a higher tolerance for frustration, obstacles and negative emotions.
It allows us to obtain better healthy life styles, balanced budgeting and good work ethics.
- More leisure time to spend with loved ones, or time for our self.
There are more chances to achieve most difficult goals more efficiently.
Arranged and well planning living styles set good examples in any community for improving its civic standards.
So trying to improve self-control for having an arranged kind of living is just like improving any other skill in life through some effort .The life history of successful people mostly highlight their strong self-discipline attitude as part of routine matter.
On the real side of life we can’t ignore that world is made up of largely undisciplined and lazy people (especially those living in developed countries). Here improper management of leadership , corrupt system and weak moral values lead people to have disorganized way of living and tend people more toward random self amusing and selfish approaches for satisfying their fake egos and complexes. People who welcomes odd attractions and out of ethics habits in their life style forgets that behind every little disorganized or problematic approach there’s a larger problem hidden, waiting for these little wrongness to grow into jungle of troubles. In fact the solution offered by them itself breed sequence of problems.
It is said that more organized and harder way one adopts in teen and young ages with some rules, principles etc, more secure and comfortable would be his/her old-time. Adopting stupid practices again and again become fundamental driving force of , which explains that stupid people not always ditch into whirlpool of self-made problems but become reason of creating tensions for organized minded people. For well-organized people it is almost impossible to make anything foolproof because fools are so ingenious and all time intrude in their lives to create highest kinds of disorders and troubles. Sometime it happens too that self-controlled people have to pay price of these selfish and highly undisciplined people living or working close to them.
Makes us to act intentionally or unintentionally in ways that harm others or create problems in their systematic way of working and living
Breeds dissatisfaction in conscious after seeing success of others due to their proper planning and self-control.
Generates conflicts between individuals, groups and generation.
Motivates people to do harmful actions in a confused attempt to achieve point of happiness , thus create negative patterns that bring undesirable situations. Usually current problems are the product of our past errors which can only modify with some disciplined and required change but here people have loosely bonded self-control conscious and they enjoy creating discomfort for disciplined people.
- Impedes spiritual progress of human mind and prevents development of highest potential of human capacity in any system.
Futuristic approach of highly disorganized people is mostly to let down organized persons and disrupt sequence of system where they have to live.For achieving this they try to develop messy tendencies, mental confusion, lack of order, , feelings of hopelessness and make blame game for others on failures .So in successful system individual attitude doesn’t matter but behavior of groups create an impression. It is the competency of genuine people and groups that is real cause of setting and maintaining an organized system and majority of mediocre have to follow it as no other choice is available for them.