Sincere,logical and wise people,a genuine asset in one’s life


Human a social creature needs company of alike mind fellows in the form of friends and companion sometimes to share their joys, sorrows or  to take guidance in difficult times. Mankind cannot live alone, every individual must live and interact with others.Good companionship, choosing and having good companions is extremely important for many reasons and from many aspects. Much part of our lives is spent in interaction with others. Befriending righteous and virtuous person is an essential means for staying in the content mode as  having good company is some kind of drain of frustration of hardships of life .More the  individuals are able to get strong, sincere and wise friends in his /her social circle, it would be more comfortable for him/her to counter the difficult situation of life.Sincerity : honesty roadsign arrow pointing towards reliance and truth honest people pure integrity

Friends are  some kind of those people in our surroundings who feel for their companions, in both happy and sad moments. If we try to trust or  share our feelings and problems  with the wrong-doers whose actions are worthless and based on risky and uncertain attitude there are chances that we  can follow them in same ways and standards as they are. Affection which results from acts of kindness and passion  indeed help the people to develop love and closeness between two or among  many friends. Mixing with followers for some social pleasures , for sake of guidance and help can appear as a clear  change in one’s behavior, morals and conduct.

This way one society is able to produce  a  core of a strong community, something that people should always strive in the form of effective social circle.That is why Islam always talk about brotherhood and its importance  , focusing better way of communication and  help to each other.On the other hand western societies due to broken family circles and weak social bonds rely on state community services where trained  people are recruited for this job to give assistance to other fellow beings.So both actions are same but one is dependent on nature of individuals and other is on the quality of state services.But one thing is common behind this kind of social need is that it should be based on sincerity and wisdom.Those people who eventually come in friendship circle or qualify for such jobs are usually put in two categories:Sincerity : Flowchart of leadership - many uses in the manufacture industry

Either they are good individuals who guide and encourage friends or people toward what is correct difference between good and bad or  those fellows who take the person toward wrong side by misusing their weak areas of life.So it is very important to select a proper person  in our circle of social acquaintance.

Right advice, logical solutions,appropriate  counseling based on experience and encouragement at the time of fall are unexplainable treasures of human guidance which  one is able to get at right time: can make him/her in correct directions of life.It doesn’t matter how many times a person faces abnormal circumstances in his/her life but what matters is how he/she tackles the difficult situation in life  while taking help of wise people.So  genuine companion is some sort of heavenly  gift which all time available to successful and content person of any society.
Muslims ‘real  leaders always focused on importance of good company in their ways:

In an authentic Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said: “A person is likely to follow the faith of his friend, so look whom you befriend.”

Hazrat Ali (AS) said: “Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away from evil people to protect yourself from their evils.

Ibn Hazm said: “Anyone who criticizes you cares about your friendship. Anyone who makes light of your faults cares nothing about you.

For picking people on the basis of their  sincerity level is more worth than following them on the basis of their temporary social status. The materialistic person , whether living in western or eastern society  finds difficult to have  a true, sincere friend in his own society on whom to bestow his love and affection.His/her  choice of  selecting typical company fluctuates with the demand of conditions he yearns for his success .

Good friendship always integrate human values in the way of affection,compassion  and divide griefs and sorrows True companions are those who are there for us  unconditionally where all other turn their faces. Never look for our weaknesses, but always offer support no matter what the circumstances are  coming ahead.

Good parenting/partnership  or brought up of child  in positive environment  itself makes person  to  find the right friends in his/her social circle but sometimes it is achieved on trial and error process or in some cases  accidentally we meet the right persons of our lives.It should be considered as heavenly gift,perhaps as return of our good and sincere deeds which we unconditionally offers to others come in our way .Positive attitude always give way to genuine persons to attracts toward positive mindsets  and this way one is able to get the reward of loving, caring and dignified kind of living in this mean and  materialistic world too.

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4 Responses to Sincere,logical and wise people,a genuine asset in one’s life

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  2. Farah says:

    Most people associate sincerity with illogical concept of life In fact, real sincerity is “feeling” the truth as well. If you do something one way and feel different inside, then there is no true sincerity. It’s somewhat akin to putting fancy packaging on a poor product.

    We have witnessed that whenever a person make sincere moves meaning what he says, life immediately responds to that change. By moving toward sincere efforts one can create the life responses and breakthroughs to success that one is seeking. People believe that by being fully sincere we somehow lose in business and life. The truth is, not being fully sincere actually blocks energy. True sincerity lets energy flow into one’s work and life.

    • Nazia says:

      Sincerity surely generates positive energy in the surrounding which ultimately provide ever lasting relationship ties in any family or community living in nearby surroundings.people confuse this sentiment with some kind of verbal commitments with others. no it highly needs demonstrative acts to certain its quality and somehow quantity.Sincerity has many qualitative and quantitative features i.e on right time, level of passions, conditional or unconditional etc.people do mistake in presenting their show of sincere acts or fail in judging the level of others sincere acts due to some doubts but time itself explain its exactness .It is really rare and valuable assets of human virtual belonging.

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