Liars! weakest kind of humans .
May 16, 2011 8 Comments
Pakistanis society is quite surplus in liars majority and from Head of state to a beggar of street the one of most common trait found is majority are lairs. Liars are usually recognized as persons who devoid of conscience , inhabits a fantasy world where anything is possible. Full of grandiose ideas about themselves.It is also seen that people who based their dealings on lies and deception make terrible companions and partners. Unfortunately they are often charming and influential people and others have fallen for them before the reality of their unreality hits their relationship.
People tell lies when they are living with many fears like , afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about them,afraid of losing advantages and gaining benefits ,afraid of taking responsibility etc. But every time they are unaware that telling a lie make that fear grows stronger.These liar don’t tolerate emotional honesty in communication and go for settlement of superficial type relationship, neither long-lasting nor have any contribution of giving peace of mind. That is why it is said that liar only lives in his present and has no stable future .
Human history reveals the human beings are born to lie: It means we cannot live without deceit and most of deceitful attitude is adopted to dodge the people who are close to these-cursed human called Liars.Developing habit of telling lies is like creating cracks on walls of confidence and love of people ,that would ultimately collapse and expose all kind of human weakness at extreme moments of troubles.
There are numerous reasons why lying is not always wrong, and why telling the truth is not always the main priority. Nevertheless, it is vital to remember that in language of spirituality ultimately truth matters only. We might concoct a hypothetical situation in which we have to choose between lying or creating misery for people living near or relying on us, but until and unless we come in position to evaluate the value of truth, as the real detriment of some happiness and solid terms for building relationships.
That is why we should develop the habit of telling truth, and distaste for lies as much as possible. Truth should be in the default of human mind and lying ought be considered as an exception that must require a special justification.
Full disclosure is never possible and one sometimes has to conceal some facts and realities to avoid high level disorderliness by virtue of extreme circumstances and it should not be dependent on personal gains and interests.
Truthfulness is largely a matter of deciding what it is reasonable to withhold as long as it can sustain genuine and long-term deals between human living under some oath and relationship.