Quiet understanding is quite enough for good relationship.
May 5, 2011 7 Comments
In building relationship people should think more of compatible partnership instead of relying on power of dominance or possessiveness.Choosy nature of partners, having superiority complex on particular habit, if and buts or any kind of arrogant temperament,might give temporary attractions to influence each other but on the long-term relationships it appears as forced relation which has a capacity to break or twisted with passage of time ,depending on bearing capacity of other partner.
Ideal partnership is like interweaving of interests of both, and little compromises for sake of happiness and all ultimately bring win-win game in couple’s life if both will have even little intention of home making. Security of faithfulness and contentment of conscious in any relation itself gives shape to free ,but mutual relationship and each coming day brings more dependability on each other.There are no short cuts in building trustworthy relationship.No intimate, virtual and emotional relationship can be developed between two persons without having some genuine differences and conflicts from time to time.Understanding and tolerance are the utmost requirement to overcome responsive feelings of anger, suspicion and some time jealousy too.
‘Give and take” law simply exists in all relations to show dependability level on each other but sometimes”giving more” brings dramatic changes in building human relation as other person becomes addicted of this giving mode .He or she naturally becomes attach to donors of care and love which are all time requirement of human soul and body.We can’t follow the imaginary love patterns because humans need the presentation of secured feelings and quality of relationships to overcome life troubles and struggles.So if we go deeply in secret of long time relationship then its success is found in the compatibility of nature and not relied on finding the ideal person of standard qualities. Long-term relations are also independent of short-lived demands and materialistic attractions There should be no pretensions and higher expectations other than sincerity and good intentions before setting any foundation of any relationship.
Foreign interferences like social pressures, alignment of many relationships all together and keeping them in satisfactory mode is not an easy task and some time creates unnecessary complications for near and dear ones but here sincerity and quiet understanding play major role of maintaining an invisible bonding in dual and multiple relationships .It would show its durability in time of difficulties.
High demands, creating liabilities or both can unsweetened this cocktail of developing sentiments and sooner or later one would feel like bonded labor of forced love life.
On the other hand in healthy relationship, a partner must not always try to get things his or her way. There must be only one path to be taken by both, it might be uneven, bumpy and sometimes difficult, but there is always a “mutual path”. Mutual understanding therefore is the basic unit of a relationship. To enhance this mutual understating Good and positive Communication are the best tools for understanding each other.
Communication is like an oxygen that needs to survive but bad way of communication can be reason of suffocation that might be appeared in the form of choking or anemic kind of attachment .In such cases, relationship can be collapsed by any kind of intrusions or small misunderstandings which are normal arrivals in any kind of alliance .A person having good communication skills usually in better position of showing maturity and self-confidence .Better way of communication or quiet synchronized understanding are right choices one should share to bring best stuff in lively lifestyles.
To reach such kind of mutual understanding couples surely have petty quarrels, little misunderstandings to judge the break even point of partner but it is all part of natural growth of relationships that one has to face uneven and harsh attitude before coming to smooth and mature way of living. Actually it is true friendship or any solid relationship which nurtures under difficult and rigid situations in much stronger way than normal way of glamorous attraction for people.
We have to live with faults as well as virtues of our love ones and one should accept the facts no one including ourselves are not perfect.Strong arrangements based on deep but some kind of silent understanding remains smooth in ups and downs of life, giving us support and happiness in hard times to lighten up the load of life we have to carry .
So we can say silent understanding is some kind of a relation of affinity or harmony between people; whatever affects one correspondingly affects the other, and the two of them always enclosed in close sympathy for each other.
Mutual relationship, based on love and friendship consists of quiet understanding, confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad. It is settling for less than perfection, and creating allowances for human weaknesses. It is being content with the present, hopeful for the future, and not worry over the past miseries. It’s the daily job list of irritations, problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories, and the working towards common goals.