Sincerity and kindness can’t be mistaken as weakness.


Sincerity and Kindness are unique human habits and serious  reason of building strong bonding and long-term relationship among people and groups. Such intrinsic  human qualities are quite rare or start diminishing in those societies which  evolve  in race of materialistic desires  and people start focusing  more on weak and short-lived  source of happiness.

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Kindness and sincerity are positive energies of human soul and diverge devilish approach of  any society for creating harmony among living beings .It surely keep away human nature  from extremism of animosity and resentment for fellow beings .It can be inherent feature or  acquiring trait through witnessing good acts while grooming in amiable atmosphere .This is very interesting that all want to be treated with kindness and sincerity but only few have capability to return this quality to people and system with same pace.

Some  people take it as their utmost right to  get the best of kindnesses and sincerity from their surroundings and its inhabitants  but  in process of receiving they forget how to  pass on to system or someones who need this as return.Arrogant and careless behavior  are antonyms of kindness and sincerity respectively  and people have more tendency to behave like selfish and cruel people. So we can observe in around that delivering kindness or fulfilling standard of  sincerity  is not  an easy  deal as it is related to giving or yielding which are traits of prophecy and  part of God ‘s act  so one can say through such acts we try  to  come near the lowest level of prophecy which always lead us to some standard of morality and ethics.

The arrogant people who take such acts of  kindness as weakness  is about making others responsible for their  sense of self-worth only .  Once one makes others responsible for defining whether he is  weak or strong,, competent or incompetent, worthy or unworthy, lovable or unlovable, then he/she  constantly tries to control  his/ her conditional acts of kindness and sincerity .

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So kindness  should be groomed   from inner strength, compassion, and a strong sense of self control.Inner strength is about taking away others’ authority to judge us and giving that authority to the only entity who actually has that authority  is only our own spiritual guidance.

Bad experiences  might ridicule our acts or try to stop us for  further expanding  our circle of  kindness but  doesn’t mean this display of humanity should be ceased .A positive attitude and its aftereffects may not solve all our problems, it might stir our peace of mind as  it can  annoy enough people to make  worth this effort in same social circle where they want to  maintain  dominance through their self-made superiority complex on less privileged or dependent people .So before handling some extremely selfish people,one should be ready  to react with some self-defense mode while handling them with power of kindness.

Some people have extra ordinary quality of deceiving others by changing  facial cover of their personality as per demand of their mean attitude so the best criteria of  knowing his/her real content of personality and  attitude , one should see his /her  behavior of kindness and sincerity toward weaker people e,g status, class and social life .

World is running not because of modern technology but due to warmth of human gestures  of love, kindness, sincere friendship etc.Opting robotic life styles as per input of  controller which is our system or demand of modern world might give extra ordinary  rise to our selfish desires but deficiency of kindness and sincerity in human nature can ruin the development of positive attitude of  human  up to  lower level  .In the end of career or after all kind of earning phase  people are desperate for such responses which they keep on dark side while they are flying in sky.Actually it is true too to some extent that weak people or dream chasers can’t be sincere with others even for those who once cared,helped and raised  them .

A saying in this regard is quite precise to  know the real reason of spreading culture of kindness and sincerity implies oneself too.

If you were busy being kind, Before you knew it, you would find You’d soon forget to think  that someone was unkind to you. If you were busy being glad, And cheering people who are sad, Although your heart might ache a bit, You’d soon forget to notice it

The key to having this profound connections with other living beings   is our intent. As long as our intent is to control others  to get love rather than to be loving, and keep on  ignoring moments of kindness through immature acts, this connection between relationship can elude. So one has to come to “giving” mode based on non return and unconditional intent to  promote these acts of humanity which are strong binding force between two or more , and reason of building loving and caring  environment for good living.

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16 Responses to Sincerity and kindness can’t be mistaken as weakness.

  1. Ahmed says:

    Don’t let people to step over you. All come will be attracted to u if u are kind and have note in your pocket and will leave u when ur pocket is going to be empty and u will enjoy ur kindness all alone.

  2. Nazia says:

    Before doing act of kindness or spreading culture of sincerity , one shouldn’t accept same from the people but do it as an act an saying of of God to spread it evenly .Contrary to this man has natural ability to take only his own egoistic and selfish desire into consideration., he/she only considers what is important to his desires. This is how a person evolves.
    I have practically faced this experience the people whom you showered with kindness and love. either misuse it or take you for granted and when they have to put blame of their failures , it would thrown to kindest creature around them, instead of respecting or valuing his/her unconditional gestures.
    So the best solution is never expect from humans and follow the divine ‘sprinciple.
    Yes ,unkind and insincere people should be criticized and not spared to over power the kind people.

  3. Ahmed says:

    Egostic and selfish desires are root cause of unkind and disloyal behaviour of fellows. Whole heartidly agreed!100 / agreed.

  4. Nazia says:

    So it is better to avoid company of selfish and egoistic person as much as possible.

  5. Penny says:

    If I do an act of kindness, it comes from my heart. I’m not looking for something in its return. I like bringing a smile to those in need of a little act of kindness, the smile is sufficient in itself for a return to my act of kindness. Many today, look for return of favors, for a simple task for showing an act of kindness. The world would be a better place, if someone thought of others more then that of thinking of what they can get in return for themselves.

    • why is it that,the kinder you are to someone the more they tend to abuse the kindness,then pretend that they themselves are such good caring thoughtful people, Is money the key ” seperator ” or from what I read they have insecurities and feel threatened in the presense of someone that is more sincere in the deeds that they exhibit?

      • Nazia says:

        That is simply they are not meant for kindness of they don’t deserve your kindness.
        Kindness is not some kind of articulate
        pretensions but naturally occurring sentiments.if somebody pose it for a while you can check it how that persons handle other relations in his/her life.
        No money doesn’t matter in life of kind and sincere people and if matters for them they are cruel and weak people.
        Yes surely what matters in this fields of sincerity and kindness is commitment which need demonstration not verbal support.
        Some might cant fulfill their commitment due to to other dominating responsibility as attached love affairs.
        so dont expect people more than their capacity.

  6. Asma says:

    The mistake of Equating Kindness and Sincerity With Weakness is human err.Both are instincts of living beings comes instead from inner strength, compassion, and a strong sense of self.

    • Nazia says:

      It is not mistake but overconfidence of shrewd nature people that they can over rule kind and sincere people through their crook nature.They are antonyms of sincerity or we can say antidote of selfish attitude in this materialistic desires.

      • Penny says:

        They are antonyms of sincerity or we can say antidote of selfish attitude in this materialistic desires. I would never do something for someone-without being sincere. Fake people are very easily spotted, how they choose to live their life is their choice. My circle of family and friends are very sincere, hard working individuals, not an insincere bone in their body.

        Sometimes, people take someone-like myself-full of confidence-strong minded-full of humor-loving life-good self–esteem as being overconfidence or shrewd nature. It’s only because they themselves lack this self-assurance-as they see this vibrant attitude in others-they wish they has in themselves. I am not saying – ALL PEOPLE_ but for the most part-there are individuals who wear many masks-to cover up their insecurities and short comings-to put on a show of being overconfident-but these people can be spotted very easily. I like the simple things in life-a life of overly abundance in material things-is not at the top of my list-I am thankful every day for what I do have.

  7. Anny says:

    Time goes by fast, and people go in and out of your life so quickly, so you should never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to you.The secret of success is sincerity. Once you can fake that you’ve got it made.

    • Penny says:

      Time does go by very quickly, and you are so right about not missing an opportunity to tell people in our life how much they mean to us, and also telling them you love them. Working in the medical field-emergency dept-I see plenty of pain, sickness, suffering, heartache, death, diseases, and this list goes on and on. I am so thankful for my good health and my life every time I clock out each day. We never know what each day will bring into our life or our love ones life. Therefore telling people we are close to what they mean to us, is very important.

      • Nazia says:

        We don’t need to tell people how much they are mean to us, but it is our actions, reactions and magnetic force of attraction that keep us in same circle of association. Even if we think we cant get rid of their company as we become dependent on each other through physical and virtual means of intimacy.
        Working in emergency medical field no doubt shows the acute pain and suffering of people but in one side it has unique feeling of superiority that after God you are the one whom people are depending in this world for saving them in last helpless state.God keep you in good health so that you would keep this superior kind of giving service to all near to you.At that time a little nice gesture has unbelievable aftereffects of making strong loving relation among people who know the values of sincerity and kindness.

  8. Nazia says:

    Yes you are right time is moving more than our thoughts and through our sincere and kind attitude we make this painful world much better living place.

    • Penny says:

      I believe we make our world what we want it to be. If we focus on the bad around us-it drags us down with the painful way people choose to live their life. Myself-I choose to look at the beauty of the world-and within my circle of friends and family-there is plenty of good people and beauty in the world-to focus our life on-then to focus on the bad. I am very humerous by nature-and to live my life any different-would not be me. I look for the fun, pleasures, adventure, in all that I do. I can be serious too, but it never hurts to have a smile once in awhile-helps make this world a better place for all. 🙂

      If I only wanted to see the bad in the world-and in people-there is plenty there to see! but I refuse to live life in this way. Life is too short !!

      • Nazia says:

        Yes we have good people living around us all the time but it all depends how we keep them in circle of goodness.If we are in good financial position or have good social status inherited or acquired all people come and circle around us, proving that we are one of best living being of this world.But real picture comes in hard times like sickness, financial crisis, emotional setback or any loss in life make you think that how many sincere and good people you have all around,
        Sincere people are our treasures and we have to keep them insecure places to keep refresh our sense of humor ,liveliness and in the time of trouble shooting too.These people are best support in difficult times and you would pass tough times without any kind of irreversible damages of your emotions.
        Bad patches are part of life and presence of bad people are quite normal.We have to bear them, face it and then go for good options as time cant be reversed.

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