Sincerity and kindness can’t be mistaken as weakness.
March 9, 2011 16 Comments
Sincerity and Kindness are unique human habits and serious reason of building strong bonding and long-term relationship among people and groups. Such intrinsic human qualities are quite rare or start diminishing in those societies which evolve in race of materialistic desires and people start focusing more on weak and short-lived source of happiness.
Kindness and sincerity are positive energies of human soul and diverge devilish approach of any society for creating harmony among living beings .It surely keep away human nature from extremism of animosity and resentment for fellow beings .It can be inherent feature or acquiring trait through witnessing good acts while grooming in amiable atmosphere .This is very interesting that all want to be treated with kindness and sincerity but only few have capability to return this quality to people and system with same pace.
Some people take it as their utmost right to get the best of kindnesses and sincerity from their surroundings and its inhabitants but in process of receiving they forget how to pass on to system or someones who need this as return.Arrogant and careless behavior are antonyms of kindness and sincerity respectively and people have more tendency to behave like selfish and cruel people. So we can observe in around that delivering kindness or fulfilling standard of sincerity is not an easy deal as it is related to giving or yielding which are traits of prophecy and part of God ‘s act so one can say through such acts we try to come near the lowest level of prophecy which always lead us to some standard of morality and ethics.
The arrogant people who take such acts of kindness as weakness is about making others responsible for their sense of self-worth only . Once one makes others responsible for defining whether he is weak or strong,, competent or incompetent, worthy or unworthy, lovable or unlovable, then he/she constantly tries to control his/ her conditional acts of kindness and sincerity .
So kindness should be groomed from inner strength, compassion, and a strong sense of self control.Inner strength is about taking away others’ authority to judge us and giving that authority to the only entity who actually has that authority is only our own spiritual guidance.
Bad experiences might ridicule our acts or try to stop us for further expanding our circle of kindness but doesn’t mean this display of humanity should be ceased .A positive attitude and its aftereffects may not solve all our problems, it might stir our peace of mind as it can annoy enough people to make worth this effort in same social circle where they want to maintain dominance through their self-made superiority complex on less privileged or dependent people .So before handling some extremely selfish people,one should be ready to react with some self-defense mode while handling them with power of kindness.
Some people have extra ordinary quality of deceiving others by changing facial cover of their personality as per demand of their mean attitude so the best criteria of knowing his/her real content of personality and attitude , one should see his /her behavior of kindness and sincerity toward weaker people e,g status, class and social life .
World is running not because of modern technology but due to warmth of human gestures of love, kindness, sincere friendship etc.Opting robotic life styles as per input of controller which is our system or demand of modern world might give extra ordinary rise to our selfish desires but deficiency of kindness and sincerity in human nature can ruin the development of positive attitude of human up to lower level .In the end of career or after all kind of earning phase people are desperate for such responses which they keep on dark side while they are flying in sky.Actually it is true too to some extent that weak people or dream chasers can’t be sincere with others even for those who once cared,helped and raised them .
A saying in this regard is quite precise to know the real reason of spreading culture of kindness and sincerity implies oneself too.
If you were busy being kind, Before you knew it, you would find You’d soon forget to think that someone was unkind to you. If you were busy being glad, And cheering people who are sad, Although your heart might ache a bit, You’d soon forget to notice it
The key to having this profound connections with other living beings is our intent. As long as our intent is to control others to get love rather than to be loving, and keep on ignoring moments of kindness through immature acts, this connection between relationship can elude. So one has to come to “giving” mode based on non return and unconditional intent to promote these acts of humanity which are strong binding force between two or more , and reason of building loving and caring environment for good living.