Woman,A pivot force in man’s life
January 19, 2011 43 Comments
It is a very old saying that “a woman can either make a man or break him. The “making” and “breaking” is mandatory dependent on the woman’s understanding, or lack of understanding to handle the capabilities of man under her custody.The active tools of any woman to handle the strongest and wisest specie of God are her emotions of love, her beauty,care taking attitude, biological requirements relating sex, and romance.The common reason usually found in criminal minded and aggressive people is absence of right woman in his surroundings and working areas that makes him more reactive ,abusive and discontent with passage of time.
Despite the fact that men are biologically polygamous, it is also true that no woman has as great influence on a man as his wife or lover, than any other relations of his life. If a woman neglects or permits her husband to lose interest in her, it can be usually because of her ignorance, or indifferent attitude of understanding the body language and need of her husband.
Almost in all cultures man’s greatest motivating force is his desire to please woman!The prehistoric male hunter , before the dawn of civilization, did so, because of his desire to appear strong in front of woman. Man’s nature didn’t change in this respect.His desire of pleasing his women folk for her favor, for making her happy is usually done by presenting best things of the world.So time has only changed not his natural inclination of joyfully controlled by any woman of his desire.
It is this natural desire of man to please woman, which gives woman the power to make or break a man.This power is hidden quality of women which cant be express in words but can be felt on variations of man’s mood in his routine life.
The woman who understands man’s nature and tactfully caters to it, has no fear that any other women can take her pivotal position in man’s life. Men may be “giants” with strong will-power when dealing with other powerful men of the world, but they are easily managed/handled in difficulties by women he naturally or virtually in contact.
It is also interesting feature of man’s particular nature that most men will not admit that they are easily influenced by the women they prefer, because it is in the nature of the male to want to be recognized as dominating relation .
Moreover, the intelligent woman enjoys this “manly trait” and very wisely makes no issue of it. Some men know that they are being influenced by the women — their wives, sweethearts, mothers or sisters — but they superficially refrain the influence because they know their limits that they are neither completed nor content in the life matters without the influence of right woman.
The man who denies this important truth detaches himself of that womanish moral support that do more to help him to achieve success than all other worldly forces working around him.So the qualities and capabilities of any man is always in need of a composer and organizer for his backups as strong life partner to keep him in high state in difficult and challenging situations .
So woman’s natural habit of possessiveness can help any man to develop his innate talent, utilize his energy, focus his attention and intentions for achieving high goals under her strict surveillance as successful wife or a proud mother.